1. Melissa
    October 20, 2016 @ 10:54 am

    This is amazing! Thank you! Can’t wait to read more


    • Norma
      October 20, 2016 @ 11:29 am

      Unbelievably accurate


      • Tracy
        October 20, 2016 @ 11:21 pm

        My discard was after. 5 years of living together we were not emotionally connected
        It was just missing
        One month later he was living with someone else who btw has bought him motorcycle , new car , watch , started him a business
        While I landed in therapy it’s been a little over year I still have not dated and find myself still missing him
        He will once a month reach out thru message pro it’s on Instagram he’s blocked from everything else
        I feel like I will live out my life alone because I can’t seem to get over it


        • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
          October 21, 2016 @ 11:41 pm

          The best way to begin to move on is to block him from everything, without exception. If he can contact you in any way, your recovery will be stalled by these intrusions. The key is to create & maintain space for you to heal.As well, not dating for a year of more is actually ideal. You should not enter a new relationship carrying the baggage from the previous one. That is a recipe for disaster.


          • Tarsh
            January 11, 2018 @ 11:54 pm

            How do you block him entirley if their are chikdren involved?

          • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
            January 15, 2018 @ 5:24 pm

            If you share children with this person, it’s best to communicate in writing (preferably email rather than text). They will attempt to provoke you with accusations, hostility & drama, but you must resist reacting. Keep exchanges brief, informative & firm & ONLY related to the children. If necessary, use a server such as Family Wizard to manage emails; this is common in the US but you’ll need to confirm that Australian courts support this option. Your life will be greatly improved & anxiety lifted when you limit communication in this way.

  2. Joe Montgomery
    November 25, 2016 @ 6:51 pm

    I have been living with pain for just over a year, and for months was trying to figure out what I could have or did do wrong, or why I didn’t see it. I watched her do it to others and through it all, she made me believe that *I* was the only one that understood her, and that she was just unhappy. I even saw the writing on the wall in the last months, but didn’t have the strength to end it- even knowing it WOULD end. She still contacts me, when convenient; sometimes I’m able to ignore her, other times, not having her voice of approval is too much. How can a human being get SO WEAK??!!


    • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
      November 28, 2016 @ 11:30 pm

      It’s not weakness, rather an addiction to her drug. The only cure is no contact. I promise you that it works.


  3. Lauren
    December 16, 2016 @ 9:46 am

    Do they know they’re narcissists? Did he know what he was doing to me?


    • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
      December 20, 2016 @ 4:33 pm

      He may not necessarily know that he’s a narcissist, but he knows that his actions are hurtful. Someone who was not aware that this is bad behavior would not work so hard to hide it.


      • Sam
        August 15, 2017 @ 6:22 am

        He probably knew but vehemently denied it.
        Or said he knew he needed help, but never actively sought it as it didn’t benefit him.


    • Carole
      December 31, 2017 @ 8:48 pm

      Absolutely. It’s a game with them and you’re the fool.


  4. Will
    December 20, 2016 @ 4:36 pm

    I believe that I was involved with a borderline in a relationship. She suddenly felt “smothered” and wanted space only to have sex with another man less than a week later. She wanted to talk about it and try to work on our relationship while continuing to see the other guy as well. I have come to understand that she has a history of unstable and quick relationships. Do the same things happen with these type of people as well?


  5. Will
    December 20, 2016 @ 4:47 pm

    Also when I blocked her access to me she continued to try to talk with me at work. I refused and she became angry and started a campaign with her friends to say I was stalking her and threatening her. I did nothing like that at all! Then she suddenly returned clothing and a gift to me. I was shocked. Is this her attempt to get access to me and start talking to me again?


  6. Jermetra
    July 18, 2017 @ 9:06 pm

    This hit the nail head on!


  7. Jennifer
    August 5, 2017 @ 8:10 pm

    Wow! So much truth!


  8. Carole
    December 31, 2017 @ 8:45 pm

    I keep asking myself the same question, over and over…..How do narcissists find us? Do we have a sign on our foreheads that only they can see?


    • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
      January 7, 2018 @ 12:26 pm

      Not exactly, but darkness is drawn to light. We have a tendency to make excuses for people, even though we should not.


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