3 Comments

  1. Zoe
    August 2, 2017 @ 8:40 pm

    Wow. This is truly amazing! Such good writing I felt as though I was sitting next to you and you were telling me the story.

    It sounds as though you may have somewhat in a way planned your discard/smear campaign? That is exactly what I did. After months and months of researching Narcs and the behaviour patterns and after multiple attempts to go NC and leave him, finally I knew how. I devised my own smear campaign and went through with it, I devised my own discard and it was beyond the depths of excruciating but alas I knew it was the only way possible out.

    Thank you for writing and sharing your story x

    Reply

  2. Catherine
    October 1, 2017 @ 5:51 pm

    I burned the bridge. I can’t say I even did it on purpose, but I did it. Unbeknownst to me while we were together he was getting back together with his ex. They ended up engaged a month after we were last together, when he started ghosting me. Not aware of what was going in, I texted him in the morning, and he told me he was happy and he wanted me gone. I assume she was there when i texted and he realized how easily I could blow up his spot. I was blindsided. He blocked me. It hurts like hell, but I also know this is for the best. He hates me now. And deep down I know that’s for the best. I know it means he won’t come back around and I am free to move forward. It is a painful process, but a necessary one. I still wonder why her, why not me. But it doesn’t matter. Any way, I guess this is a rambling way to say thank you for this post.

    Reply

    • narcissist.sociopath.awareness@gmail.com
      November 14, 2017 @ 12:57 am

      He didn’t chose her because she is “better.” He chose her temporarily because she possesses something that he wants or needs. When he has exhausted her resources, he will move on. It doesn’t feel like it now, but YOU were the real victor here.

      Reply

Leave a Reply